Christine Chiu understands storytelling. As the producer of Netflix’s Bling Empire, Chiu helped bring the first reality series featuring an Asian-American ensemble cast to the streaming giant’s platform. The show, which enters its second season this weekend, was a hit, and its glimpse at the opulent lifestyles of LA’s uber-rich proved addictive. The drama was juicy, but Chiu’s interest in narrative began long before she hit the small screen. “Anything I can do to help tell a story gets me excited,” she shared at New York’s Casa Cipriani. “Even before we’d begun Bling, I was working on multiple television projects in various stages of development, and that was so rewarding. Regardless of the form a story takes – art, music, cinema, or fashion – the process appeals to me.”

Whether she was producing the show or working with non-profits like Spike Lee’s Ghetto Film School, which works to help next-gen filmmakers in underserved communities receive education and support, Chiu focused on bringing other people’s stories to life. Her step into the spotlight as a member of the Bling cast was unexpected. “I was looking at the project as a whole,” Chiu explains. “Most of the cast had already been assembled, so I wasn’t considering being in front of the camera.” Initially comfortable playing a background role, Chiu’s opinion shifted after considering the importance of representation. “I never saw people who looked like me on television when I was growing up, and I felt we could contribute to changing the landscape,” she says. “I thought about my son’s generation, what he’ll feel when he watches TV and can see people who resemble himself being celebrated for their beauty, quirks, and intelligence. Once I considered that, I knew I had to be a part of it.”

Chiu’s step into reality television was the latest evolution in a career that centres on entrepreneurship – she and her husband Dr Gabriel Chiu co-founded Beverly Hills Plastic Surgery and the Regenerative Medicine Aesthetic Institute – and philanthropy. While her active social calendar tends to get all the attention, Chiu’s day-to-day life is far removed from what makes the society pages. “My husband and I had to divide and conquer,” she explains. “When we met we were working at the same medical corporation, where I was a VP of sales and marketing. When we began our business, I knew that putting on the ‘ladies who lunch’ hat was a promotional tool. Part of my job became forming those essential connections that can only occur when meeting people face to face.”

That skillset is a key part of what makes Chiu so watchable on the series, but filming season two came with challenges she couldn’t have anticipated. “Between seasons one and two, I lost my mother very suddenly, which was incredibly difficult,” she says. “I’d always viewed myself as a go-getter, and I’d committed to this project, so I didn’t want to back out. I tried to put on a brave face for my family and to fulfill my commitments, but I was in a vulnerable place. [Still], I’ve learned so many valuable lessons. My proudest moment, and perhaps the silver lining in all this, was that I’ve finally become comfortable standing up for myself, which [I consider] a form of self-care. In traditional Asian households, you’re often taught to hold your feelings inside, especially when people mistreat you. Finding the strength to advocate for yourself and your needs, be they professional or emotional, is empowering.”

Chiu’s onscreen journey has become less about drama and more about realism this time around. “We want to make a great show; we’re doing this for our people,” she says. “That has brought a sense of pride and allowed us to understand the responsibilities that come with this platform, so we’re all out there trying to do our part.” The perspective shift is apparent in Chiu’s current fashion choices. “I’m the mother of a toddler, and he’s constantly running around, so my schedule is more about dropping him off at preschool and arranging playdates than attending society brunches,” she says. “This season, you get a much more well-rounded wardrobe; I’m in my jeans and T-shirts much more often. My jeans are Chanel, though, so the glamour isn’t going anywhere.”

Below, Chiu reflects on this shift, and shares her best fashion advice.

Pick and choose your trends carefully. 

The one thing I will never wear are Crocs. I know that there are fancy platform crocs now with heels, but that kind of footwear isn’t for me. I will say, though, that Dr Chiu bought the Dior Birkenstocks. I don’t know why he did that, but suddenly he has them in multiple colours. I’ve asked that he only wear them while in the operating room, so they’re hidden beneath a shoe cover.

Opera gloves are another [trend] I’m on the fence about. Part of me loves that all of a sudden, everyone and their grandmother is keen to wear long gloves again. I wonder who gets the credit for bringing them back, and when will they fall out of fashion? I’ll never forget when I did my plastic surgery-themed party, which they showed during season one. I bought a pair of Latex gloves. When my make-up artist saw them, he said, ‘Oh my god, those are cheesy!’ Now Bella Hadid is wearing the same kind of gloves, and it’s cool; maybe I was just too ahead of the curve.

Borrow from the boys 

Right now, one of my favourite things to do is find pieces from the menswear runways that can work for me. There are certain houses where menswear is more interesting than what is offered for women, or it connects with me more personally. My husband and I are such big fans of Kim Jones and have been for years, so we follow him wherever he goes, and when I see a piece that I love, we ask the atelier to remake it to suit my body shape.

Find your workwear uniform

My go-to outfit is – and I’m embarrassed to say it because I wear it all the time – a Tom Ford sweater dress with a hood. I throw in an oversized Balenciaga jean jacket, Prada combat boots, and a fanny pack, then I call it a day. A few years ago I didn’t know if I would have imagined myself in that. If I have a business meeting, I’ll throw on a pair of pumps, and I’m good, but if I’m out enjoying a night with friends or picking up Baby G from preschool, I’m all about the jean jacket and combat boots!

Trust the beauty experts

When it comes to beauty, I’m a little spoiled. Between Dr Chiu being a plastic surgeon and incredibly well-versed in dermatology, and now having a platform where I’m lucky enough to be gifted products, I’m able to enjoy unparalleled access. I’m living with an expert, so I don’t have to schedule a consultation or book an appointment to find out which cream works better. I can lean over and ask!

I try to keep things simple, but I think skincare should be dynamic. As we age, our skin is constantly changing. It can even change in a single day. Sticking to the same routine you’ve had for a decade is doing yourself a disservice. Don’t waste your time on ineffective products. Go straight to the dermatologist and the stuff that works. I also consider myself lucky to have access to pharmaceutical-grade products instead of over-the-counter.

Fashion is storytelling

You can chart your life’s journey through clothes, and we often use them as a costume. You dress to represent yourself in a certain way. When I was 23 and at the start of my career, I dressed like a much older woman. At that time, I was helping my husband build his plastic surgery practice, and part of that was going out and building his clientele base in Beverly Hills, a market that is completely oversaturated and highly competitive. To put it in perspective, over 2,000 other plastic surgeons are all working within a two-mile radius.

I entered society so that we could build the business, so I was out joining clubs, and charity organisations, serving on boards, and participating in activities where I was often the youngest person in the entire room and the only person of colour. I dressed older to fit in with that crowd, so there I was, this young girl wearing Escada, Carolina Herrera, Oscar de la Renta, and Chanel – brands that I love but not ones that other people my age were wearing. Sometimes I think that some of my wild outfits now are just me making up for my years of matronly dressing!

It takes time to find your voice 

It wasn’t until I served on the board of Fashion Group International in Los Angeles that I dove into the fashion world on my terms. Through my work there, I received a fashion education that introduced haute couture, which is fashion at its most artistic and inspiring. As I learned more and more, I began to discover my voice and take risks that I might not have otherwise. I found myself through style and through that journey. I’m grateful because it opened up an entire world.

Casual is a relative term

Season one was full glam, but we wanted to show a bit more realism this season. There are many aspects of who I am as a mother, businesswoman, and wife that are omitted from the story because editors choose the most entertaining bits. Those are often when we’re wearing the most outlandish clothes or attending parties in incredible gowns, all of which looks amazing but isn’t relatable.

There used to be these well-defined boundaries of what was appropriate for certain situations but post-pandemic, it’s all blurred together. Lately, I find myself gravitating towards these oversized vegan leather blazers because they’re useful transition pieces that you can wear year-round and throw over anything. You could be wearing joggers or leggings, but the right jacket can elevate everything.

Support brands that align with your values

There was a collective “come to Jesus” moment during the pandemic where we all were at home in sweats and realised we didn’t need to spend a dime [on clothing]. I decided that if I was going to make a purchase, it would be from a brand that was giving back, contributing something positive: designers and labels that are donating to Covid relief efforts, engaged in social justice, or focused on sustainability. I tried to be thoughtful about what I bought, and now as we’re hopefully moving out of the pandemic, I want to hold on to that mindset.

I applaud designers and houses who go beyond the fabric and use their platforms for good. Watching Balenciaga’s fall show gave me goosebumps. I was impressed because that collection came out during a moment when war had just erupted in Ukraine, and many in fashion were still figuring out how they were going to address that with sensitivity. Demna went out and, in a very strong, silent way, showed solidarity with a cause he believed in. He told his story through the medium of the runway, which made such a powerful statement.